I get tired of hearing this....

I don't want to hear "where are all the good guys?" My best friend asked me today where all the good guys are. I politely told her, "they are everywhere, but the guys you attract are directly related to the bait you use." And you know what? It makes sense. But then we got into a conversation about how people change in the middle of a relationship, and how some people's true colors show after the feelings have gotten very strong. And that's when she told me that alot of guys can be good guys in the beginning, but when you finally settle in, they either freak out or get tired of the relationship. And then they aren't so good any more. I had no answer to that one. I'm still trying to figure that one out myself.